Friday, November 07, 2008

Grateful for the Temple


I had a nice date night with Jeff tonight. I am grateful that he takes me to the temple. I love the feeling of peace that envelops me in this beautiful place. This is the place where I feel the closest to my dad. I am grateful for the knowledge that I will see my dad again. I am grateful for the knowledge that I don't have to be perfect. I am grateful to know that I have a loving Heavenly Father.

Thursday, November 06, 2008

The Kelly Shopping Curse

I have always said that I am not a "typical" girl. I am very laid back and just like to do my own thing. I didn't like gossip and how mean girls seemed to be behind other girls' backs. I was never into name brands because I felt like all it did was show other people how much money you spent. I was always a no frills type of person. I didn't have a lot of money so I only bought what was necessary. (ie, I was cheap!) I didn't like wearing makeup because it always felt so thick on my face. Due to all of these reasons and more, I never became as proficient as a shopper as most of my peers did. Fast forward to adulthood, when I really can't avoid shopping.
Here are some of the things that happen to me when I go shopping(and add to my dislike of it):

1. I go to the grocery store, pull out a coupon, find out I am a day early (or a day late!) for the sale.
2. I go to the grocery store (we have 2 main ones in our town) and I pull out my coupon and realize I am in the wrong store! (And it is not the one that accepts customers' coupons.)
3. I wait to go shopping until I know EXACTLY what I am looking for, and inevitably it is the only row that is empty.
4. I get to the store and realize I don't have any credit cards with me.
5. I buy something that I think is the right size (for instance, a mirror for our living room), and I bring it home and it is not even close.
6. I bought 2 cute shirts for full price at Old Navy. The next week I run into someone who has one of them on. I say, "I loved that T-shirt too." and she says, "Yeah, isn't it great that they were only $5?!)" Turns out I bought them 2 days before the $5 sale!
7. I tell Jeff that for his birthday we are finally going to buy a nicer TV. We both decide that we still want it to fit in our entertainment center (which has doors that close.) We measure the width to be 35 3/4 inches. All of the 37inch TV's(they are measured on the diagonal) have widths that are right around 36 inches. The next size down is a 32 inch, which has a 31 inch width. We were so frustrated that we stopped looking for 8 months! This leads me to my next post...stay tuned...

1. Am I the only girl who doesn't like shopping?
2. Any shopping advice?

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

My Plan for the Year

It is nice to have a few ideas for posts! Writing every day gets a little crazy, but it is a fun challenge.

So, onto my plan. As most of you know, I really struggle with organization. It just doesn't come naturally to me and I get overwhelmed very easily. Usually I will set a crazy goal such as, "I will have the whole house completely organized in the next 2 weeks." I do a marathon cleaning and organizing day and then get burned out. Then I end up more frustrated than I was to begin with. My awesome friend Suziepetunia told me about a book that might help me. It is called One Year to an Organized Life. It gives week by week assignments to get you organized in a reasonable amount of time. Baby steps instead of trying to do everything at once. For the first time in my life I feel very optimistic about getting things somewhat under control. I will be meeting with a few of my close friends (including Suziepetunia!) once a month to talk about how things are going and prepare for the next month. It will be great to have a support system. Wish me luck!

For those of you who I know are incredibly organized, please feel free to comment with any tricks that have worked for you. I will keep a link to this post on the side of my blog, and anytime you think of something to add, please do! I love learning from other people what works for them!

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Oops...I need a do-over day!

Today was an emotionally charged day for many reasons- most of which I am not going to talk about- sorry! So, it is actually Wednesday morning but I am posting for Tuesday. I am ready for the clean slate. I will talk about my plan for the year later on today.

As with the rest of the country, I was glued to my TV and internet. I am grateful the election is over and I am ready to see the "Big Change" that has been promised. :-) Will he live up to his campaign promise? Only time will tell. I hope as a nation we can come together. I was impressed with John McCain's concession speech. I hope we can all be as willing to support the new president. I know I am. Let's roll.

Monday, November 03, 2008

Still Undecided...

...this was not the post I planned on writing tonight, but it is all I can think about right now. I am so grateful to live in a country where I can help decide who will lead us. My problem is that in this election I really can't get excited about any of the candidates. (I even read the bios of the "other" candidates.) Jeff keeps telling me not to stress about it because my vote doesn't matter in Oregon anyway (yes, please razz him about this attitude!), but I really want to use my right to vote. A right that has been fought for by selfless soldiers for over 200 years. I would list all my reasons for liking or disliking Obama and/or McCain, but I don't want to turn this into a political forum. So, for now, I will get back to reading different articles and try to make an informed decision. Wish me luck!

And then I will go watch the SNL Political Bash. :-)

Sunday, November 02, 2008

October Pics

How exciting- more readers than I thought! Hope I can keep you interested all month. :-)

So, here is my whirlwind journal update. This is where I mostly put pics up for grandma and so someday I can turn it into a scrapbook using Blurb.com.

Enjoy!

We went to the pumpkin patch for preschool, but I didn't have my camera. I was able to go later with the Special Needs (Snaps) group from the YMCA. I just help out with this group every once in a while and I just love it. My favorite part was when Molly grabbed the wagon handle to start pulling Emily. I had never seen her do something like this. It really warmed my heart. I love involving my kids in things like this and I need to do it more. They sure have a special spirit about them.



We had our first taste of wearing costumes at a kids Halloween party at the Y. The kids met a lot of their friends there and just had a good time playing games and eating treats. What more could you want? Bryce really loved the bean bag toss and kept sneaking to the front of the line and reaching as high as he could to put the bean bag in the lion's mouth. So cute!
The next weekend I took a trip up to Seattle to visit my cousin for her baby shower. Unfortunately I got sick on the way up and she took good care of me. I just brought Bryce with me and Jeff had a great time with the older 2 kids at home. He took them swimming and just enjoyed being with them.
Jeff and I got a babysitter and went to an adults only Halloween Party. We rented a bowling alley and then played pool and hung out. Everyone dressed in costume and just enjoyed chatting without the little ones to take care of. We definitely need to do this more often. I wish I had more pictures, but my camera wasn't working. You can see more on facebook if you want to add me as a friend! :-) It was so much fun!
The day before Halloween was a little busy. I had the co-op preschool at my house. It is one of my favorite holidays to be in charge of because the kids are so cute! We had a great time. I was able to volunteer in Dallin's school for their harvest festival. I don't get to help as much as I would like, I just have to remind myself it is not my time yet! So, I am so grateful for friends who help watch Emily and Bryce so that I can be there every once in a while.
Halloween Day started with teacher conferences. I have been so happy with the charter school that Dallin attends. His teacher is very aware of what he needs and loves to challenge him. I am grateful that she is continuing to foster his love of learning. He has been such a joy to teach and it is wonderful to see him learning from someone else. We spent Halloween night with good friends having a pot luck dinner and then took the kids trick or treating. The boys sprinted so far ahead that I didn't get any pictures of them! They were sweating by the time they met back. (Hopefully someone else has pictures!) Emily was too funny. She was very picky about her candy. One time she said, "I have tried that kind and I didn't like it. Can I have chocolate?" I tried to chastise her a little for being rude, but it made me laugh! Bryce made a very cute pirate, but didn't quite get the trick or treating yet.
So, that is the last few weeks in a nutshell. I look forward to posts of a more random nature!

Saturday, November 01, 2008

Getting geared up for NaBloPoMo...

I just signed up again for NaBloPoMo- where you post every day for the month of November. I did this last year and even though it was a tough time in my life, I am grateful that I did it. So, for all of you (the 5 of you who read this!) who tell me I don't update enough- now you will get much more than you want! I already have a few posts in my head. Here are some teasers:

1. Halloween Update (of course!)
2. The Kelly Shopping Curse
3. My Plan for this Year
4. Our newest addition
5. Running Addiction

So stop back by. I will be here all month. :-)

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Cruisin' with Jeff

For once I am at a loss of words. I am not sure where to begin to describe the 9 days away. It was so much fun being with Jeff. Even just being on the airplane with a book was relaxing. There were so many great things. One of my favorite parts was listening to John Lund speak. He knows a lot about the Book of Mormon and a lot about marriage. I felt so uplifted. We saw many wonderful things and I am sure I can't think of them all, s0 here goes my attempt and my travelogue. This is more for journaling purposes than anything else.

Day 1: We had a 4 hour layover in Atlanta, so we decided to brave the public transportation. We went to see Millenial Park, but it was closed for a private event. It looked beautiful from the outside. We also walked around the World of Coke, but didn't want to pay since we only had about 30 minutes by the time we got there. There will definitely be more to see when we go again someday. It was much better hanging out there than in the airport!
Somehow I had picked to fly into Fort Lauderdale when our hotel was in Miami (Only me!), so my good friend Ranell (from Oregon), used her investigative powers to find us a shuttle to Miami. There was a crazy lady in our car and it took 1 hour and a half to drive 20 miles. We eventually reached our hotel! We watched the Red Sox game (which we didn't even stay up to finish as it went into extra innings- they eventually lost-doh!)and ate at a sports bar.
Day 2: Met up with our group from Cruiselady. I was excited to have all my activities planned for me. We did notice pretty quick that we were one of the only younger couples there, but everyone seemed really great and excited to be there. They were a neat group to travel with. We went on an airboat tour through the Everglades. It was a gorgeous day. We even held a baby alligator and watched trained alligators. We met a couple from the Northwest and hit it off immediately with them. It was nice to meet new friends.


We got on the ship around lunch time and then just enjoyed the sun and the view of the harbor. It was Sunday and since it was an LDS cruise group, we were able to have Sunday services. The speaker was John Lund, who is incredible, and we were lucky enough to have a concert by Michael Ballam. It was a beautiful way to spend a Sunday.
Day 3: Day at Sea We were able to hear John Lund speak again and we just explored the boat. We were able to sleep in, work out, read, relax and enjoy time together.
Day 4: We went to Grand Cayman. We signed up with the group to swim with the stingrays. I don't have any pictures of this because my underwater camera fell off the strap-doh! But let me tell you, it was so cool! The water was not very calm, but it was crystal clear blue. Exactly what I pictured and more when I thought about the Caribbean. The stingrays were kind of scary at first because they were so big, but they would just come up and hang out with us. I got pretty sick, I think from all the salt water and the next part of the little boat ride was not so fun for me. Luckily I felt good enough later to snorkle some more. It was pretty rainy, so many of the people we met went back to the ship. We figured we were already wet, might as well enjoy the island. We went for a "run" to find the nearest beach. We ended up at 7 mile beach and enjoyed a nice afternoon. I am glad that Jeff is such a good sport!
Day 5: Due to crazy circumstances, this ended up being another day on the boat. There were riots in Honduras, so they didn't feel it was safe to go there. (I personally didn't want to be in a country I didn't know with civilians having guns and protesting, hmm...)We spent the day working out, listening to John Lund, eating, reading, and eating.
Day 6: We were rerouted to Cozumel where we went to the ruins of Tulum. This is a beautiful site and it was great to have the local guide, Lemuel (yep, his real name!) talk to us about the Book of Mormon correlations. You could feel his love for the site.
Our new friends Matt and Ramie!
After riding on the "Mexican Limo" on the way up, we decided to walk back. Then we started our search for a beach!

Day 7:We had found out our plan to go to Belize was also waylaid, this time due to weather. How can you be disappointed when you are still being waited on hand and foot? The replacement port was Progreso Mexico, and we were lucky enough to go visit Chichen Itza. It is one of the new 7 wonders of the world and it was magnificent. I was in awe the entire time we were there. I could have stayed there all day and I could do one post all about it. Maybe I will. :-)It is amazing to think of the ancient civilizations who built these temples and what their lives were like. Our guide was Helaman this time and he was incredibly knowledgeble.
(Here is Jeff proving he did wear his nametag every once in a while!)
We also watched a movie on the big screen on the ship. (Well, Jeff watched it, I fell asleep. Some things never change!)
Day 8- Day at sea- This was the first time we participated in "cruise" activities and we had a lot of fun. We joined in some competitions and ended up dancing, singing karoke (Steph, you would be proud) and dancing some more. We also took a latin dance class, which was a lot of fun. We did some more relaxing and reading and hanging out with new friends we made. We also saw some great shows while we were on the ship- my favorite being the amazing juggler, Jeff's favorite being the show dedicated to 80's music!

(These are the waiters responsible for feeding me lots and lots of food!)
Day 9: Time to check out and head home.
I couldn't believe it was over. I had a great time, but I was definitely thinking about my kids. On the plane ride home I found out Emily had had a febrile seizure while I was gone and it just made me so sad. My mom handled it perfectly of course, but that is something no grandma should have to see. Emily was very excited to see us as was Bryce (who came running!), but Dallin kept on playing video games. It is good to know they are so loved and well taken care of. We were supposed to just miss my mom's flight home, but her plane was delayed so I was grateful to tell her thanks in person. She is a fantastic mom and grandma. They had such a good time with her and I feel so lucky that I could enjoy myself and my time with my sweetheart while they were in good hands.
This was the first vacation that I felt rested when I came home. I was ready to take on laundry and cleaning again, and ready to play with and love on my kids! I am grateful for my marriage and my wonderful husband of 10 years and this chance to enjoy just being together. Thanks for the hot chocolate every night. Love ya babe! You are the best!

Friday, October 10, 2008

Husband Tag

I thought this would be a fun thing to think about before we head out for our cruise. My mom came in today, we had a fun birthday party for Emily, went on a fantastic date night listening to a talk on marriage, and we leave in the morning for Florida. I can't wait to spend 9 days with my favorite person. I am so grateful my mom is willing to do this.


1. Were did you meet?

Good Old Glenwood Apartments in Provo, UT.

2. How long did you date before you got married?

We met in September, first date November 21st, Married the next August 21st, so we knew each other ALMOST a year before we got married!

3. How long have you been married? 10 years and we will be celebrating for the next 9 days!

4. What is you favorite feature of his? His beautiful green eyes and sexy soccer player calves!

5. What is your favorite quality of his?
He is very calm and level headed- opposite of me! He keeps me grounded. I love that! He is very tender hearted and never wants to hurt anyone.

6. Does he have a nickname for you?

Babe.

7. What is his favorite color?

Blue, I would say.

8. What is his favorite food? Baby Back Ribs!

9. What is his favorite sport?

To watch: Football To play: soccer or waterskiing

10. When and where was your first kiss?

At his parents' house 2 weeks after we started dating. I really wanted him to kiss me on our second date when we hiked the "Y." I had it all planned out in my head, but apparently he wanted to show me that I meant something to him, so he waited! He kissed me at his parents house.

11. What is your favorite thing to do as a couple? Boating, running, any sports! (Except volleyball! He likes it-I don't.)

12. Do you have any Children?

Dallin (6), Emily (4), Bryce (16 months)

13. Does he have a hidden talent?

He has amazing rhythm! I love to dance, and he is a natural whenever we take lessons together. He is good at pretty much anything he tries. Sometimes that annoys me. :-)

14. How old is he?

32.

15. Who Said "I love you" first?

He did, but the feeling was definitely mutual.

16. What do you admire most about him?

He is a great father. He is one of the hardest workers I know. I have learned so much from him. He has definitely made me a better person.

17. Do you think he will read this?

No. :-)

I take Suziepetunia, Jamie Malcolm, Jadie, and Angi, and anyone else who wants to!

See you guys later!!

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Mother/Daughter Bonding Time...

...that's what I needed today! Emily and I went for a pedicure together. I had a gift certificate that Jeff had given me for Mother's Day, but I had to wait until my toenail came back. :-) (Fell off a year ago after the St. George Marathon, ha ha!) I thought it would be fun to take Emily for her birthday. My good friend Sue watched Bryce for me and Emily and I had a fabulous time. It was very relaxing. (Chair massage and that was a neck warmer I was wearing!) They brought us hot chocolate and water and took good care of us. Emily is a crack up and I love spending one-on-one time with her. The girls got a kick out of her. I think this will be a fun tradition. (I had to try not to cringe as she chose blue for her nail color!)

Friendly Advice

1. Don't follow another car too closely.
2. Especially if that car is a cop.
3. Make sure you have your updated insurance card in your car.

That's all.

Edited to add a little more explanation: Believe it or not, I was having a very good day. After being sick for 3 days, I finally was over it and felt like a million bucks! I got out the door a little late to meet with the class I teach at a grocery store, and apparently I was too focused on getting there. A cop pulled me over and said I was following him too closely. He told me that is what causes road rage and isn't safe. The sad thing is I didn' t realize I was even following him that close. It was a tough wake up call. I will pay attention better. As far as the insurance card, honestly Jeff always puts the new one in our glove compartment. It has been 7 years since I was last pulled over, so I don't really check for it too often. Doh! Tough lessons to learn.

Monday, October 06, 2008

Fun with Friends

We have lived in our house for 7 1/2 years and we have been lucky enough to be surrounded by amazing people. We have incredible friends who we really enjoy being around and who have been there for us. These past few weeks have especially been filled with some good times. Here are some of the moments:

1. Annual Beach Trip- This was our 7th year! We have 6 couples who go.It is always a little crazy, and no one really gets any sleep, but we love hanging out, going in the hot tub, playing poker, playing the Wii, going shopping and just relaxing at the beach. (The only bummer was that I left the beach house for a few hours to take charge of this fun family triathlon. )Each year we joke that we will just go with the adults, but the kids look forward to it every year!
(Flashback pic: This is the first year we went to the beach. Tyler and Dallin were the only kids and they just under 1 years old. Now there are 15 kids under 7!)
2. Impromptu dinners- Sarah can tell when I am having a tough time and is quick to invite us over for dinner. We love hanging out with their family and eating yummy food. This past weekend we got together with a couple of other families and ate and chatted while the men went to the Priesthood session of conference.


3. Enjoying the fruits of their labors- Our good friend Ranell and family live on beautiful acreage and we have spent a lot of time there this past year. Ranell and I are both very laid back when it comes to child care and have done quite a bit of swapping. I love watching the kids run around in nature. I also love eating out of their garden, since I can't get mine to grow! This past week we joined 2 other families and picked apples and pears.

4. BYU football- There is no better reason to get together than to watch a BYU game! They are ranked nationally this year and the games have been fun to watch. We watched the game on Karen's big screen while the kids just played. When Jeff discovered the Red Sox game was on after, they let us hang around and watch that one too. It was a great night!


5. Running Buddies- Oregon is a beautiful place to be a runner. Luckily, it is also pretty easy to find people who also want to run. We have a great group of women who meet early in the morning to get their exercise in and chat. On Saturdays, we are joined by a few of the men. Jeff and I have been hiring a babysitter to do some of these Saturday runs together. We were training for a 10k together. The race took place last weekend. Unfortunately, Jeff was sick so he didn't feel great, but he still had an awesome race. It was great being with good friends and cheering each other on. When is the next race?

I am grateful for the good friends that we have. I am trying to get out of my nervousness of having people over at my house because I do want to hang out and play games more. My ADD causes me to stress about the planning part. My friends accept me for who I am, weaknesses and all. They make me want to be a better mom, wife, friend, and person. They make me laugh, let me cry, and help out where needed. Without having family living near us, my friends have become my family. I hope they know how much I love all of them.

In a little bit of sad news, I think this is the end of the summer. Bryce gave me one whole week where I could let him go up and down the slide by himself. Then, he started to pull this craziness. Maybe it's good it's the end of the summer. Next year, his body might be caught up to his fearlessness!

PS
Post below about Em's birthday!